This is an outstanding summary of the horrific situation in Gaza and what has led to it. The future of our children is the starting point for my novelized memoir Fugitive Dreams (I hope you don't mind me sharing it with your readers):

https://ramsey-hanhan.medium.com/fugitive-dreams-my-personal-reflections-on-palestine-b11ec648a4b1

My conclusion is similar to yours. We need a dose of forgiveness and reconciliation, justice and equality. I see true Peace as a lowering of borders, envisioning a "Palestine with no walls". As you say, "empathy, love, and justice are the cures."