I've been attempting to dissect these structures for years, first while writing my autobiographical book about Palestine, and especially this last year. There is a stark disparity not only in who gets to exercise violence and how that exercise is presented, but also a serious disparity in who gets their voices heard and acknowledged, or constrained. See my latest piece 'Anger is A Gift':

https://medium.com/@ramsey-hanhan/anger-is-a-gift-d5bdc736437a